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BIG TALK

 Do you know a high percentage of women do not climax during sex without the help of foreplay, Do you also know that some woman are so use to lying to their husbands to the extent they are beginning to believe the lies themselves all because they do not want to bruise the ego of their almighty husband.   They don't enjoy the sex and pretend to climax during it while all through the process they couldn't wait for him to finish up. Come on, why do we always do this to ourselves, have you ever seen a man who pretended to cum? I guess not, see, we are the ones punishing ourselves. All because you don't want to get him angry or because you don't want to push him away or cause you don't want him to think you're loose you decide to pretend and go with the flow, trust me he's having all the fun when he's inside you and even after cause you've made him believe he did the best job, and the funny thing is it only gets worst with time because you both will start having more responsibilities and  it's just going to turn into a quickie in bed as time goes on. Most women cant even discuss sex with their husbands. Now let me tell you the little I know about most men, when they have sex with a lady and the place is loose or She's not good at it or they are just not feeling it regardless of the fact that they got to the peak (ejaculation) they begin to think of other options, guess we all know what the options are. A Nigerian lady will say it doesn't matter, men are meant to cheat but women are suppose to stay at home and wait for them to come back and do what they know how to do best  which is to sleep, eat and do a 2mins quickie.Why did our society do this to us. When we have sex issues in our marriage we can't even discuss it with the closest person because the society has put us in a position where we can't do that. When we have sex issues with our husbands we have to wait till he does something else before we pour out our anger without letting him know the main reason why we are so upset. Some of us who have experienced the type of sex and foreplay that takes you to cloud nine know the difference from the one in which after he gets there you feel like you are just about to start but he's already snoring. We women are even so silly that we even judge other women that have extra marital affairs as if we don't have our own problems. A man cheats and other men give him a name that signifies he's the real man, a sharp one, man of honour, a woman does the same and we women  condemn her till she feels a devil lives in her, have you ever tried to sit with this women to discuss what really happened and what lead to it, are you sure you do not fantasy on your matrimonial bed about other men or your ex who knows how to do the job and does it well, don't get me wrong, am not saying women should cheat am just saying there is a motive behind every action and we women need to be there for one another. We also need to voice out about our needs, we shouldn't let them turn us into what we never thought we would be, come on. If he's not good with his stick in bed then he should be good with other parts of his body which can be used to replace the stick.

Also women should try and be neat, in fact tell  him how you care for yourself down there so he knows he's safe if he goes head down on you. While in the mood take his hands where you want to be touched and show him the rhythm, if he wants to move to other things and you still want him there tell him how much you love him and how much you will love him to continue what he was doing and how you will also satisfy him when he's done there ( you know what I mean), don't push it the first time you try this, be gentle but make him see how you love to be touched then let him have his way, being the first time you're trying this don't expect much. When you're through tell him the part you enjoyed most. Start by saying "that was a nice one baby, you made me feel like a woman and am so happy to have you , do you know the part I enjoyed most "apart from you being inside me" ( don't forget to says this one) , is when you did that and this ( I.e whatever he did that you truthfully enjoyed), if you had not stopped I would have cried out of excitement , gosh you amazed me today , love you more for that." Trust me, the next time you do it he would try harder than the first time. If you're the shy type then you need not worry, all you have to do is to send him a text when he's not with you or chat with him on phone, you can even tell him how you will handle him the next time so that the excitement is there.

Most women are not enjoying their marriage but they can't voice out so they die bit  by bit till they can't feel anything anymore and the ones that are not ready to end up like that end up doing the wrong things so you can't actually give them 100% of the blame. 

I don't think have heard of any woman getting a divorce on the ground that her husband isn't giving her sexual satisfaction or he isn't even giving it to her at all, not in Nigeria. Trust me this is 70% of the reason for divorce, the others fall into the remaining 30%.

power failure in nigeria

Following the significant decline in power supply witnessed across the country in the last couple of days and the untold hardship it has brought upon Nigerians, the Federal Government, yesterday, said, “Nigerians should take heart, help is on the way.”
Speaking at the Worldstage National Electricity Power Conference, in Lagos, Minister of Power, Professor Chinedu Nebo, said the Federal Government is aware of the challenges confronting the sector and is working assiduously to address the problems.

Prof Chinedu Nebo, who was represented by his Special Adviser on Investment, Finance and Human Resources, Mr. Olajuwon Olaleye, said the Federal Government is aware that the power sector is the hub of development, and it is ensuring that all hands are on deck to bring progress to the sector.
It was stated that the Federal Government is currently putting finishing touches to ensure that the power companies are seen to be operating in an effective manner.
He further stated that they are at the second stream of the shadow trading phase, which is designed to mirror and test run all the segments of the power sector, making sure that everything is in place before the kickoff of the TEM.
He maintained that the transmission section of the power sector needs a total investment of $7.7 billion over the next couple of years for the maintenance of the transmission grid, while the distribution and generation sections needs an investment of $5 billion annually to drive growth in the power sector, making possible for the country to attain all the targets for the sector.
The investment is important, because as the generating capacity of the country is being upgraded in the next couple of months, the wheeling capacity of the transmission facility also needs to be upgraded to be able to deliver power to every nooks and crannies of the country.
Also speaking, Mr. Aderemi Bello, President, Lagos Chamber of Commerce and Industry, LCCI, bemoaned the epileptic power situation in the country, saying that, “the sector is critical to Nigeria’s economic development and all hands should be on deck to ensure it is fixed.”
He further stated that there are concerns that the successor companies did not conduct due diligence before buying into the power companies, in addition to the funding challenges confronting the companies.
According to him, the Nigerian financial system cannot support the funding structure of the power sector due to the long term gestation period for the power projects, high interest rates and legacy debts.
He further expressed concern that the top management of the successor companies has little experience on how the sector is run, while there is no proper framework to ensure a meaningful level of local content.
He disclosed that investors in the power sector are grappling with a lot of challenges beyond their control, noting however, that efforts should be made to tackle the challenges, as this will ensure that the sector is fixed and also make the country competitive

BIG TALK

NIGERIA a place where women are bullied into getting married. Ask me why I said that, guess you are really very curious. Well in Nigeria people around you make your decisions for you without you knowing it because they make it seem like it's your idea.Take for instance, it's a popular belief in Nigeria that when you're of certain age as a woman you should be married regardless of if you're emotionally or even literally ready for it. When you are 18 and you have a boyfriend in Nigeria your parents are against it and do everything possible to stop the relationship forgetting everything is a process. Tell me how possible it is for you to graduate from the university with a good grade without going through the process. Trust me even if you cheated or the exams wasn't written by you, you still passed through the process cause you still had to move from one level to the other. Now as an 18 year old girl you know left from right and trust me as Nigerians we know way more than we ought to know at that age. For you to now tell her not to have a boy friend means you're telling her she's not responsible or she can't make good decisions for herself . At this age I for one think all she needs is guidance else she will try to do it behind your back just to prove you wrong. What you  need do for her is be her friend and guide her through life by telling her life experiences and letting her see right from wrong. Imagine giving your child sex education, telling her about the danger of being with the opposite sex but not telling her about the fun part, I know you must be saying 'is she crazy', well, am not. I feel it's better to be truthful with our kids when it comes to sex- This is what I mean, when you tell your child why it's not good to have sex at a tender age tell them that -"sex is sweet but it's best enjoyed when you're older and with the right person, the reason am saying this to you is because when you're of age you can recognize the right person to have it with without having any regret and having it with the right person at the right time is the fun part. Any guy you're dating feels like the right  person but do you know the right person and the only person worthy is that guy that loves you enough to go on his kneels to propose to you and take you to the alter, imagine yourself sharing that moment with him, you will never stop talking about it forever and he will forever cherish that moment, anytime he remembers he will worship you and never want to leave you. Now imagine yourself having given yourself to a guy you didn't end up with, he's with another person just as you are with another"( well I prefer this to the usually line of sex is not good). My reason is this, at this age all we want is to have fun and for a mother to tell her child the danger in having sex and not tell her the fun stuffs is foolish because she will go out there, get the information you omitted on her own and misinterpret it. The guy tells her what you didn't and even encourages her to try just to show her the fun in it, she tries it and she's like wow this is nice then she's like mum or aunt or dad is a liar she must have lied about the other things. This is just one of the mistakes we make in Nigeria and some other parts of the world. When she's in the university you keep saying study hard forget about boys for now, really? When their are so many cute boys around giving her attention and she's already feeling the heat. When she graduates and she gets a job you jump at her that she isn't getting any younger so she should think of settling down, wow, the same girl who doesn't know much about relationship is expected to get married. Of cause she will meet a guy she believes is cool and nice and get married, but don't judge her if things doesn't go well and she gets a divorce or she stays married and she's not happy. Now this is common in Nigeria , most of those who stay married are the ones who are scared of the stigmatization  that comes with divorce. Trust me, most married women are not happy. They might not accept it, but deep inside them they know am right. A lady who doesn't know much about boys is expected to be a fulfilled woman in marriage based on the training she got from home, come on, apart from teaching her how to take care of the house did you teach her how to take care of her man? Did you teach her what to say to him when he's not feeling the relationship or how to spice up her relationship, let's not forget she doesn't have much experience in that area and they are both young they do not have the patience of teaching each other . See everything in life is a process, you cant have a degree without waiting for the number of years you're suppose to wait for so also you can't be happy in a marriage if you know nothing about relationships.
The next type of lady, is the one who is a graduate between age 27-35and has been in different relationships but for some reasons not married . This might be due to the mistakes her parents made while bringing her up in the sense that she might not know how to keep a man probably because she wants to jump from no experience with relationships to having a serious relationship and we all know men don't like the "I want a serious relationship" type of lady, they always want things to move gradually else they feel rushed.Trust me, the idea behind having experience in relationships is not just for sex but to also discover yourself. In every relationship you learn different things, you know the similarities and difference between different men which will help shape you into choosing the right one for you. See, you can't know the difference between eba, amala and semolina until you have a taste of it , just like the Yoruba proverb which says " we can never know if a soup is sweet till we taste it" which brings us to the fact that looks can be deceptive. Let's go back to the main issue, so at this age she's being pressurized by everyone around her to settle down, her parents her friends her colleagues and lets just say the society as a whole will bully her, telling her age is not on her side and no matter how strong she is she will eventually succumb and go for the next available  guy, trust me , she just made the biggest mistake of her life. At this stage the problems are too many to be put in here , it goes on and on, from being bullied by her husband, to being beaten, to not being allowed to do the type of job she loves, to not being allowed to do what she loves to do at her spare time, to not being respected, to not getting sexual satisfaction and the list goes on. Please feel free to drop your comment.

A teenager is alleged to have killed her newborn baby and then burned its body so her parents wouldn’t find out she had been pregnant.

Alexandra Olaru, 17, gave birth while her parents were out. she then suffocated the baby with a pillow before throwing the body into a wood burner.

Friend Iona Bibesco said: ‘No one knew she was pregnant, she didn’t look it and she didn’t tell anyone.

‘We only found out when she came to school the next day and told us what had happened.

‘At first we thought she was making up some sick sort of joke, but as she went into more detail we began to realise it was probably true.’

Her friends in Gorj County, Romania, reported what they had heard to a school teacher who then contacted the police.

Prosecutor spokesman Emil Mota said: ‘When questioned by police the young woman admitted everything she had done and gave all the details.

‘Immediately after she gave birth she killed the newborn and set it on fire.

‘She said she was afraid her parents would find out she was pregnant and be angry.’

Her father, local councillor Marcel Olaru, told reporters: ‘I just found out about this when the police arrived at our home.

‘We knew she had been in a relationship and had actually got married. But that finished and she came back to live with us.

‘But we had absolutely no idea she was pregnant nor that she had gone to such terrible measures to keep it from us.’

Prosecutors say the girl is currently undergoing psychological and psychiatric tests.

If found sane, she will be charged with murder and faces a life sentence.

cameroon's communication minister-Boko Haram hostages

Issa Bakary, Cameroon’s Communication Minister, on Friday said he was surprised by the news that some hostages kidnapped by Boko Haram militants in Northern Cameroon were released as reported by a news website.
According to the report, Boko Haram militants have released the wife of Cameroonian Deputy Prime Minister, Amadou Ali, 10 Chinese workers and district heads who were kidnapped in different attacks.
The Chinese workers were found missing and believed to be taken by the Nigerian Islamist rebels on May 16 after an attack at a Chinese work site in northern Cameroon.
The wife of Amadou Ali was also believed to be kidnapped on July 27 by Boko Haram militants in Kolofata but the group did not claim responsibility.

A politician arrested for alleged pipeline vandalism

A59-year-old suspected vandal  was arrested by operatives of the Inspector-General of Police Task Force on Anti-Pipeline Vandalism in Ogun State.

Officer in charge of the task force, Friday Ibadin, who identified the suspect as Wahab Junaid, said he was arrested at Ifote village in Obafemi/ Owode Local Government Area of Ogun State.

He said: “ On September 15, detectives acted on an intelligence report that Junaid was back and currently operating with his boys at Ogere, Ogun State.
“Detectives, led by Ogere sector commander, ASP Shakwallo Philemon, stormed the area and arrested him. We are still on the trail of his accomplices who are still on the run. He would soon be charged to court. “
During interrogation, the suspect, popularly known as Doctor, disclosed that he usually bought a truck load of siphoned petroleum product from vandals for N1.5 million and sold for N3 million.
Junaid, who admitted to have been arrested thrice before now, said: “I swear, after I regained freedom in 2012, I stopped everything that has to do with pipeline vandalisation. But politics lured me back to it.

‘My objectives’
“I am an active member of All Progressives Congress, APC, and the slot for the House of Representative was zoned to my area, Ibeju Lekki constituency.
“I am one of those who have best opportunities to contest and win the election.
“I was told to go and look for money to sponsor my campaigns. I am a graduate. I read Botanical Science and Animal Rearing. I am a veterinary doctor. Unfortunately, people no longer patronise us and I had to change my profession.
“Since I did not have enough money to sponsor myself, I called my friend, one Oloje, a vandal, who told me that the area was calm and suggested that I could come and load some trucks.
“I was actually waiting at the designated point with the trucks with which to lift the product when policemen arrested me.

Arrest history
“ I was arrested in 2008 by the Task Force but was discharged and acquitted. In 2010, I was also arrested at Epe, but also regained freedom after several months.
“Again, I was arrested in 2012 over a similar offence by policemen from FESTAC Division. As usual, I was arraigned in court. But through the help of my lawyer, I was able to secure my freedom.
“I suspect that my enemies, who are bitter that I was anointed to fly the APC flag for Ibeju Lekki constituency at the House of Representatives in 2015 have a hand in this.
“As I speak to you, no one knows that I have been arrested. Please forgive me and give me another chance to represent my people in the House of Representatives.”

US sends medical experts to study how Nigeria tamed Ebola

United States’ Center for Disease Control and Prevention has despatched its personnel to study how Nigeria contained the killer disease.

The US reported on Tuesday that it has discovered a case of EVD in Dallas, Texas, but its health officials said “the crisis is under control and the public has nothing to fear.”
A statement released by US CDC Director Tom Frieden said “it’s clear the nation needs a quick and thorough response to its first Ebola patient”
He said although Nigeria was not completely out of the woods, “their extensive response to a single case of Ebola shows that control is possible with rapid, focused interventions.”

Frieden said “the best practices in Nigeria and Senegal suggest the U.S. should monitor all individuals who may have been exposed to Ebola and establish a dedicated management and response system.”

US health officials are expected in Nigeria which it claimed had the best practices in combating Ebola Virus disease. Nigeria is expected to officially announce today that the remaining two potential Ebola patients will exit the 21-day observation period.
How Nigeria stopped the spread of Ebola
According to US CDC, “Nigeria’s first reported case of Ebola surfaced July 20, when Patrick Sawyer landed in Lagos from Liberia and exposed 72 other passengers to the virus. Nigeria’s Health officials quickly issued notifications and tracked everybody who may have been in contact with Sawyer.
“Nigeria also established an Ebola Incident Management Center to handle the potential outbreak and developed a staffing plan that executed a social mobilization strategy that reached more than 26,000 households of people living around the contacts of Ebola patients,"

Panic in America
The man who imported Ebola into US was found to have travelled to Liberia without informing the authorities and did not disclose the nature of his ailment to the nurse that attended to him. Reports from Texas yesterday said that the Nurse who attended to the man has also taken ill for Ebola in Texas.
A spokesman for Texas Health Presbyterian said the patient had walked into a Dallas emergency room on September 26, without knowing that he contacted the deadly virus and left after he was treated. He then returned to the facility on September 28 where it was determined he likely had Ebola and was isolated. He tested positive Tuesday, health officials said.
Following the lapse on the part of the hospital officials, questions are being asked amid panic across the country. The CDC has thus advised that all medical facilities should ask for patients with symptoms consistent with Ebola for their travel history.